It did not take long after I was asked to write a short article on the topic of “preparing for confession” that I began to reflect on the irony of the request.
The thought that someone who often suffers from an over-scrupulous conscience should share with others about preparing for the sacrament of reconciliation certainly left me smiling a bit. Nevertheless, God often chooses the “foolish” and the “weak of the world” (1 Corinthians 1:27), and so, here I am to share with you.
There are many guides out there that can be used to prepare for confession. They often include an overview of what happens in the sacrament, as well as an examination of conscience and can be very helpful for a lot of people, especially the less scrupulous among us. In this brief article, however, I am going to share a more open-ended approach toward preparing for confession that has been quite helpful for me.
This, for the most part, is the simple process I try to use to prepare for confession, and it has often helped me to make a good confession. I am confident that I have found so much success with this method of preparing because it is based primarily on God; relying on his grace to prepare me for the sacrament of reconciliation instead of on my own efforts. In God’s own mysterious way, he has taken one of my weaknesses (scruples) and has turned it into an opportunity to trust more deeply in his grace. This is God’s way though, to make a good thing from our weaknesses, our folly and our sins. All we must do is share them with him in trust, and let his grace take charge.
Lord Jesus, in this Year of Mercy, may we all approach the sacrament of confession with trust in your grace. Please help us all to make good confessions; to be honest and sincere, but not scrupulous. Amen.
Kyle Zinno attends St. Joseph Church in Conway.
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